Traveling abroad exposes us to a variety of cultures and customs, but it can also reveal our own unintentional rudeness. Behaviors that are perfectly acceptable in the United States can be seen as disrespectful in other countries. Here are the most common American behaviors that can be considered offensive.
Tipping Generously
In Japan, tipping is often seen as an insult. Service workers are paid to provide excellent service, and offering extra money can imply they need more. Instead, a simple thank you is appreciated.
Speaking Loudly
Americans often speak loudly in public, which can be perceived as disruptive in other countries. In Finland, people value quietness and low noise levels in public spaces. Keeping conversations at a moderate volume shows respect for the local culture.
Shoes Indoors
In many Asian and Scandinavian countries, wearing shoes indoors is considered dirty and disrespectful. For example, in South Korea, it’s customary to remove shoes before entering a home. Always follow the host’s lead.
Blowing Your Nose
In countries like Japan and China, blowing your nose in public is considered very rude. It’s better to excuse yourself and do it in a private area. Sniffling is more acceptable, even though it may seem unusual to Americans.
Hand Gestures
Certain hand gestures that are benign in the US can be offensive elsewhere. For example, the “OK” sign is considered vulgar in Brazil and Turkey. Familiarize yourself with local customs to avoid misunderstandings.
Left Hand
In many Middle Eastern and South Asian cultures, the left hand is considered unclean. It’s traditionally used for hygiene purposes and not for eating or greeting. Always use your right hand for interactions like shaking hands or handling food.
Pointing
Pointing can be seen as aggressive or impolite in countries like Malaysia and the Philippines. Using your whole hand or gesturing with your thumb is a more acceptable way to indicate something.
PDA
In conservative cultures such as Saudi Arabia and India, public displays of affection are taboo. Holding hands, hugging, or kissing in public can lead to uncomfortable stares or even legal consequences.
Talking About Money
Discussing personal finances openly is often seen as gauche in the UK and Germany. It’s considered a private matter and bringing it up can make others uncomfortable. Stick to neutral topics and avoid financial discussions unless necessary.
Hugging and Touching
In Japan and China, physical touch between acquaintances is uncommon. Hugs, back slaps, and even handshakes can be uncomfortable or inappropriate. Opt for a polite bow or a nod instead.
Being Direct
In Japan and Thailand, being overly blunt or assertive can be seen as rude and disrespectful. A more indirect approach and maintaining harmony are highly valued in these societies.
Not Greeting Everyone
In France and Spain, it’s customary to greet everyone when entering a room or a social gathering. Failing to do so can be seen as dismissive and rude. A simple “bonjour” or “hola” goes a long way in making a positive impression.
Chopsticks Upright
In Japan and China, sticking chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice resembles a funeral practice. It’s a sign of bad luck and is considered extremely disrespectful. Always place chopsticks on the holder or across the bowl when not in use.
Refusing Food or Drink
In Greece and Italy, refusing to offer food or drink can be seen as an insult. Hospitality is highly valued, and accepting what’s offered shows respect and appreciation. Even if you’re not hungry, it’s polite to take a small amount.
Being Late
Punctuality is highly valued in countries like Germany and Switzerland (famous for their Swiss watches). Arriving late can be seen as disrespectful and irresponsible. Always strive to be on time or even a bit early for appointments and social gatherings.
Laughing Loudly
In Japan and some other Asian cultures, laughing loudly is considered impolite. It’s seen as a sign of poor manners and lack of self-control. A quieter, more restrained laughter is appreciated.
First Names
In China and Korea, addressing elders by their first name without a title is disrespectful. Using honorifics or titles shows respect for their age and status. Always follow local customs when addressing others.
Queue Jumping
In countries like the UK and Japan, jumping the queue is seen as extremely rude. People value orderly lines and waiting their turn. Always respect the line and wait patiently for your turn.
Yawning
In Japan, not covering your mouth when yawning or sneezing is considered rude. It’s seen as a lack of self-control and consideration for others. Always cover your mouth to show respect for those around you.
Your Feet
In Middle Eastern and some Asian cultures, showing the soles of your feet is highly offensive; it’s considered unclean and disrespectful. When sitting, be mindful to keep your feet flat on the ground or crossed at the ankles.
Eating in Public
In Rwanda and Japan, eating while walking or in public spaces is frowned upon. It’s seen as disrespectful and messy. Instead, find a designated area or wait until you are in a more private setting to eat.
Both Hands
In South Korea and India, receiving or giving something with one hand is considered disrespectful. Always use both hands when exchanging items, such as gifts or money. This gesture shows appreciation and respect.
