Being mindful of what you say can help you build a better relationship with your healthcare provider and access the best possible care. For a more effective appointment, avoid using the following phrases that most doctors find off-putting or borderline offensive.
It’s Just a Quick Question (Outside Appointments)
Bringing up “just a quick question” outside of a scheduled appointment can undermine the importance of your concerns and the doctor’s time. Medical queries deserve undivided attention and appropriate context, which is best provided during a dedicated session. Respect the process and schedule an appointment where your concerns can be thoroughly addressed.
I Saw Online That…
Starting a conversation with “I saw online that…” might indicate distrust in your doctor’s expertise or suggest that you’re seeking a specific confirmation rather than an expert opinion. While it’s good to be informed, always approach your doctor’s advice with openness rather than confrontation. Allow them to weigh your research with their professional training.
I’m Fine (When You’re Not)
Saying “I’m fine” when experiencing symptoms or pain can hinder your doctor’s ability to diagnose and treat effectively. It’s crucial to be honest about what you’re feeling and experiencing, no matter how minor it may seem. Accurate information leads to better health outcomes.
Can You Not Tell My Spouse?
Requesting confidentiality from your doctor about serious health issues can put the physician in a difficult ethical position if family involvement is necessary. While patient confidentiality is sacred, involving family members in significant health discussions can sometimes be essential.
Just Give Me Antibiotics
Demanding antibiotics for ailments like the common cold or flu shows a misunderstanding of their purpose and risks antibiotic resistance. Antibiotics treat bacterial infections, not viral ones, and their misuse can lead to greater health problems. Trust your doctor to prescribe them when truly necessary.
I Don’t Take Those Meds You Prescribed
Telling your doctor you haven’t taken your prescribed medications without a good reason can be frustrating for them. They prescribe based on what they believe will best address your health issues. If you’re experiencing side effects or have concerns about the medication, discuss them openly instead of discontinuing on your own.
I Feel Terrible, But It’s Probably Nothing
Minimizing serious symptoms or failing to mention them because you think they are unimportant can lead to misdiagnoses or late diagnoses. Always mention any changes in your health, however trivial they may seem. Your doctor can only act on the information you provide.
No, I Haven’t Done Anything You Suggested
If you tell your doctor you haven’t followed any of their advice or recommendations, it can render appointments ineffective and frustrating for both parties. Cooperation is key in managing health, and if you have reservations or alternative preferences, discuss these openly.
I Need a Note for Work Tomorrow
Requesting last-minute paperwork can put unnecessary pressure on your doctor’s already tight schedule. Plan ahead for medical certificates and discuss your needs during your appointment, not as an afterthought.
That Won’t Work for Me
If you have concerns or doubts about a proposed treatment, discuss them rationally instead of flat-out rejecting it. A good doctor-patient relationship is based on open communication and mutual trust.
I Took Some Extra Pills
Taking more medication than prescribed can be dangerous and should be immediately communicated to your doctor, not casually mentioned. Overdosing, even with non-prescription medication, can lead to serious health risks. Always adhere to the prescribed dosage unless advised otherwise by a professional.
Isn’t There a Quick Fix?
Expecting instant solutions for chronic or complex health issues can lead to disappointment and frustration. Most medical conditions require time and lifestyle adjustments to manage effectively. Patience and persistence are often as crucial as any treatment.
I Don’t Need Tests, Just Tell Me What’s Wrong
Refusing diagnostic tests yet expecting a diagnosis can hinder your doctor’s ability to effectively understand or treat your condition. Tests are crucial for accurate diagnosis and crafting an appropriate treatment plan.
I’m Too Embarrassed to Tell You
Holding back information due to embarrassment can prevent your doctor from making an accurate diagnosis. Remember, doctors are trained professionals who handle sensitive issues discreetly and respectfully.
It’s Not That Important, But…
Downplaying symptoms can lead to them being overlooked or undervalued in your medical assessment. Even minor symptoms can be early indicators of larger health issues. Share all relevant health information clearly, regardless of your personal judgment of its importance.
Can I Leave Now?
Asking to leave before a consultation is fully complete can result in missed information and advice. Ensure each appointment is used to its fullest potential by staying engaged until the end. Patience during appointments can lead to better health management and understanding.
I Know My Body Better Than Anyone
Dismissing medical advice because it doesn’t align with your self-assessment can be risky. Doctors have medical training and experience that provide them with insights you may not consider. Collaborate with your doctor by combining your self-knowledge with their expertise.
Can You Make This Quick?
A rushed appointment can compromise the quality of your medical care. Quality healthcare takes time. Be prepared for a thorough discussion to ensure all aspects of your health are properly addressed.
I Don’t Believe in Vaccinations
Expressing blanket disbelief in proven treatments like vaccinations can be problematic. If you have specific concerns about vaccinations, discuss them scientifically rather than dismissing them outright. This allows for an informed, rational dialogue about their benefits and risks.
That’s Wrong; I Read Something Else
Contradicting your doctor’s advice based solely on articles can disrupt the diagnostic process. Distinguishing between reliable sources and misinformation is paramount. Engage in a constructive conversation about your readings to better understand the medical perspective.
I Smoked/Drank Right Before Coming Here
Admitting to smoking or drinking right before a medical test can skew results and affect your doctor’s ability to treat you. For accurate diagnostics, follow pre-appointment instructions carefully and be honest about any slip-ups. Honest communication ensures the best care and accurate test outcomes.
Can You Prescribe Something Stronger?
Asking for stronger medications without a proper assessment can lead to inappropriate treatment. Medications, especially strong ones, should be carefully matched to specific symptoms and conditions. Trust your doctor to prescribe the strength of medication that is most appropriate for your situation.
Just Google It
Suggesting that a doctor should “just Google” a symptom or treatment undermines their expertise and the complexity of medical diagnosis. Doctors rely on years of training and clinical experience, which provides a more reliable basis for medical decisions than an internet search.
